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3rd Sunday of Advent Year A, 2016. A Biblical Reflection on the Sunday Readings by Fr Brian Gleeson CP, Melbourne Australia.

06 Dec

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ROMANCE AND DISILLUSIONMENT

For ten years I was a member of a team in Sydney called ‘Catholic Engaged Encounter’. It conducted weekends for engaged couples. It consisted of a senior married couple, a junior married couple, and a priest. The live-in weekends were a form of intensive preparation for Marriage, and worked well. One of the topics addressed was called, ‘Love is a decision’.

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The start of the relationship that leads to marriage is usually falling in love. In the process the man and the woman experience a deep attraction to each other, discover what they like and love about each other, think the other is ‘wonderful’, ‘marvellous’, even ‘adorable’, and are bubbling with excitement about each other. As time goes on, however, feelings of romance are often followed by feelings of disillusionment. Their ardour cools. They begin to take each other for granted. They discover faults and flaws. They get impatient, grumpy and angry with each other. They start blaming and snapping at each other when things go wrong. They are less and less contented in each other’s company. They begin to give less and less time to each other. A situation of disillusionment has definitely developed. So the experienced married couple on the Team offer some valuable strategies to revive romance after disillusionment. They especially stress how love is ultimately a decision, and not just a feeling.

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It seems that romance followed by disillusionment is part of a broader pattern of relationships. In today’s gospel story, John the Baptist in his prison cell is disillusioned with Jesus. John had announced the wrath of God. He had said that God’s axe was already lying at the root of the tree. He had said that sinners were going to be separated from the just and destroyed with fire. They were going to be discarded in the same way as the chaff is blown away from the wheat when the harvest is in full swing. John has heard, however, that Jesus is making no such threats, While he is calling on everyone to repent, he is not scaring people into repentance. Instead he has kept stressing God’s invitation to come back to him ‘with all your heart’. He is insisting that God is offering not just a full pardon, but a close friendship, and with his friendship all the help and strength needed to walk in his way. So, while John keeps threatening judgment and punishment, Jesus keeps offering mercy and forgiveness, help and healing.

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It would appear that John is also disillusioned with the lifestyle of Jesus. He, John, has been a monk, an ascetic, all his adult life. He has lived in the desert, has worn animal skins, has fed on insects, and has drunk swampy water. But he has heard that Jesus doesn’t go in for those kinds of penances and mortifications. On the contrary, Jesus is always going out to dinner, mixing with all kinds of people, even with tax agents for the Roman occupiers and with prostitutes. He’s not even particularly pious. Sometimes his disciples don’t bother to wash their hands before eating, and Jesus lets them get away with it.

So, as John languishes in the damp, darkness and depression of his prison cell, he’s getting more and more fed up with Jesus, more and more disillusioned. He even doubts that Jesus can be the promised Messiah, the promised Saviour, after all. To resolve his doubts, he sends a couple of his own followers to Jesus and confronts him with the question: ‘Look, you don’t fit my identikit picture, so, tell us, are you the Messiah or not?’

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Jesus does not take offence at John’s weakening faith in him. But he does not give him a direct answer. He tells the messengers to tell John to check out his credentials by reflecting on all the things that Jesus is doing. See for yourself! See how they all fit the pattern promised by the prophets, Isaiah especially! ‘The blind see again, and the lame walk, lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised to life, and the Good News is proclaimed to the poor.’ Jesus is saying in other words: ‘Look, my friend, the desert is blooming, darkness is giving way to brightness, joy and gladness are replacing sadness. The healing power and compassion of God are at work in me. Everything I’m doing is giving praise and glory to God.’ Jesus even adds a very gentle ‘dig’ at
John when he quips: ‘And blessed is the one who does not lose faith in me!’

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On the other hand, Jesus shows loudly and clearly that he hasn’t lost any faith in John, is not the least disillusioned with John. In fact, he pays him the highest tribute: ‘I tell you … of all the children born of women, no greater than John the Baptist has ever been seen.’ There’s certainly nothing wishywashy, nothing vacillating about his cousin John. He’s no reed swaying this way and that in the breeze. Did he not confront King Herod to his face with the truth? The woman you seduced and married, he said, is not your lawful wife! There’s nothing namby-pamby about John either. Not for him the life of a courtier in some royal palace, wearing silks and satins, and bowing down a dozen times a day before every petty potentate coming and going! No! John is the last of the OT prophets and the greatest. Over and over again he speaks the truth of God clearly and eloquently, speaks it without fear or favour. And he has paid the price for doing so by being slammed into prison, where any day now the king will give the command: ‘Off with his head!’

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In the light of today’s gospel message, where do you and I stand in regard to our faith and hope in Jesus? One hears of more and more people dropping out of active membership in his community of followers. Of course, they will join us for Christmas, but after that they’ll go their own way. I didn’t say ‘their own sweet way’, because a life without Jesus can be a rather empty, lonely, superficial, unsatisfactory, unfulfilled, even bitter kind of life. Perhaps right now our own faith in Jesus is under some strain. Perhaps life in his community has not been as rewarding and helpful as we had hoped. Perhaps some of his followers have let us down. Perhaps some of our leaders have let us down. Perhaps our prayers seem to have gone unanswered lately.

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Whatever the reason, let’s remember that Jesus is the reason for the season, this season of Advent/Christmas, this season of hope! In our Holy Communion with him today, then, let us commit ourselves to not only saying but also meaning that prayer we will be sharing: ‘Lord, I am not worthy that you should enter under my roof; but only say the word, and my soul [i.e. I myself] shall be healed.’ Healed to walk the walk, and not just talk the talk!

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